Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too
incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a
total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!
1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature!
Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at
yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on
Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly
attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's
irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg
2. Calling a girl countless times:
Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times
and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she
doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine.
You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not
picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and
dumped! Personally, this turns me off.
3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl:
Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to
entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking
woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another
guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal
and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like
programmed machines
when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your
ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2
bottles of SNAP that you bought.
4. Begging a girl to love you:
Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable
mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone
call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you
appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.
5. Bad English:
When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They
can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or
past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked:
"Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar".
I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right
there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into
the air like an abandoned child.
6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:
Whenever
guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it
several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow
for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its
disgraceful
If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not
advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but
not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and
look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian
ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!
7. Irresponsible life-style:
Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10
years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette,
popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine.
That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that
emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even
make a woman leave you immediately!
